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Where do I start? Let's start with the word BODY. What picture flashes through your mind when you read the word Body? What picture flashes through your mind when you read the words Your Body? Because girls and boys that's the whole point. It matters not that history has been unfair to women and their Bodies. Your Body is still Your Body whatever Bull those old farts of history were shovelling down people's throats. Okay. Okay, I ADMIT, it may not have been easy when we as women were being married off to the highest bidder and that laws of old ALLOWED evil husbands to beat the hell out of their wives. BUT, It was still That Woman's Body. Very simply when she dies, her body dies too. No king or even pope could keep a woman's body alive if she chose to flee and perhaps died trying to escape. Ultimately, in the very big end, you decide how you See your own body. I admit that there are circumstances when you disagree what should happen to you and your body and some sick-o imposes their will on your body. However ladies, they don't have control over how you feel in your body. Even if they hijack Your Body for a spin around the block it is not ever anyone else's to possess. Infringe upon, yes, that has happened to more than one woman. Shit Happens. Shit has been happening to innocent women and men for thousands and thousands of years. No pity parties girls. Therefore, and I am fuming as I write this------- what women chose to do with Their Bodies in the 21st century where we have more choice than we have had in a long, long, long, long time is important. Nobody is making us become objects in the west but ourselves. If we become a Hole for some lecherous vermin smegma then OWN UP ladies----99 times out of a hundred, there is no one to blame but yourselves. SO. Now that I have had my rant I will tell you about my night. I just got off the phone with Nef and she has made me promise that I would write to you, whoever is out there, what I have been agonizing about with her. Why can't we as women in the west Value our Sex? And Not think we're dirty whores just because we may have a sexiness in our morning coffee? The guilt. The shame. How this gets played out by women from coast to coast is painful to watch. Hot and Vulgar are two extremely opposite poles to dance on. But some women can't seem to separate sexy from vulgar. Wrong. Incorrect. I have friends that are high price call girls, judges, dirt cheap adult actresses, doctors, dancers, photographers, astrophysicists (okay so one, and yeah it's a friend's mom, excellent formidable woman by the way) and so on and so on. The truth of the matter is, that sometimes it's the stripper that values her body more than the doctor. |